Episode 92 – Do I have to love to write?

One listener asked, “Do I need to love writing to write my life stories?”

The short answer—no—but watch the video to hear my full answer.

Writing is a discipline. While loving it makes the process easier and more enjoyable, it’s not required. You can still write your stories even if you find it challenging or tedious at times.

Sometimes, the satisfaction comes after the writing is done, much like the feeling after a good workout.

The important part is to commit to the process and keep writing, whether you love every minute or not.

If you’d like to know more about hypergraphia, here’s an article in Psychology Today titled “Quirky Minds: Hypergraphia: A River of Words.”

But always remember, the only way to do this wrong is to not do it at all!

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Etya Krichmar
2 months ago

I love writing. It is my passion, and I write every day. I also help others improve their stories by line editing. Not only does it help them, but it also helps me become a better writer. So, Patricia, I have to add a bit to your answer. You don’t have to love writing to write your story, but if you want your story written well, you must fall in love with your writing.

Nancy Archibald
2 months ago

I like to keep a balanced life, between family, writing and exercise. Writing can take over; then I feel guilty. When family and exercise take over, I feel guilty. I cannot win.

Etya Krichmar
2 months ago

Don’t feel guilty, Nancy. Maybe prioritize whenever you can.

THIERRY LAGARDE
2 months ago

Writing in a foreign language since February 2022. My goal as I joined Life Writers and Patricia Charpentier was to write and publish memoirs of my childhood. In 2022 I gave my all through the weekly courses, meetings, writing, group sharing and feedback. But little writing outside of LW. 2023 was tough as health issues I already faced in 2022, floored me to the point I almost quit all writing and memberships. 2024 listening to Patricia’s teachings, I started everyday journaling in a few phrases. Successful surgery on April 29th got me back on my feet. By May 12, influenced… Read more »

Kit Dwyer
1 month ago

Bravo, Thierry! That’s a good deal of words to be proud of. I’m glad you remained a member through the struggles with health and surgery. It sounds like you are on a good path. I look forward to reading more of your thoughtful stories.

Etya Krichmar
2 months ago

Keep on writing, my friend. I will be cheering you on in your journey.

Nancy Archibald
2 months ago

I’m glad to hear you are able to continue writing despite your health and surgery. These setbacks can derail your writing. Good for you to keep on task.

David Godin
2 months ago

Writing is like going to the gym. The exercise is hard but you feel better afterwards. Also, I’m a kid again, putting together my art project, just like the teacher explained; with paste glue, misaligned construction paper pieces, and stray crayon marks. When I show it to Mom I see all the glaring errors and criticize my work, while she praises it.

Kit Dwyer
1 month ago
Reply to  David Godin

Those are appealing analogies. The gym and the art project. Thank you for putting those in my brain!

Etya Krichmar
2 months ago
Reply to  David Godin

Dave, practice makes it better. Keep on doing it!

Nancy Archibald
2 months ago
Reply to  David Godin

You have shared many enjoyable stories with us. Keep it up.

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