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Episode #49 – “Can We Talk About Something More Pleasant” by Roz Chast
Memoirs come in all shapes and sizes, and I believe there are as many ways to write memoir as there are people to write them.
Episode #48 – Barefootin’
In our forty-eighth episode of the Life Writers Vlog, we introduce a creative writing prompt titled “Barefootin’.”
Forgiveness
Thank you all so much for the outpouring of love and good wishes sent to me this past week after posting about my mom’s death. I would love to have…
Episode #47 – How to Write a Title
You should always give your stories working titles before you begin to write. You can change the title later, but every story deserves a name. This week's...
Still a Shock
My mom took her last breath at 6:00 p.m. last Wednesday. Even though this was a call I had been expecting for four-plus years, it still came as a shock.
Episode #46 – Exclamation Marks
When there's a fifth Thursday in the month, we look to acclaimed authors for writing advice. Today, we tap into the wisdom of F. Scott...
A Dull Sunday Story
My husband Bob and I just returned from a marvelous trip that took us to eight countries and gave us a world of new experiences. On the island…
Episode #45 – Past or Present Tense
Logically, you'd think all memoir should be written in the past tense because the events happened in the past. But one listener asks, "Do I...
Episode #44 – “The Ride of Our Lives” by Mike Leonard
Whenever you have a chance to hear an author speak in person, do it. It is so worth your time, effort, and gasoline.
Change Your Perspective
My husband Bob and I just returned from a marvelous trip that took us to eight countries and gave us a world of new experiences. On the island…
Episode #43 – It’s a Bird! It’s a Plane!
Today, let’s look to the skies of our memory and recall the wonders we have seen.
If You Like Monkeys…
If you like monkeys, Costa Rica is the place to go! I visited Parador Nature Resort and Spa in Manuel Antonio, Costa Rica, in June to finalize…
Episode #42 – Bite #165, Tighten Up
This being the first Thursday of the month, we take another bite from my book, Eating An Elephant: Write Your Life One Bite at a...
Episode #41 – Should I write by hand or a computer?
I speak to many different groups about the importance of writing their life stories—writers groups, genealogy groups, civic groups, truly, all kinds of groups. I...
Episode #40 – “100 Ways to Improve Your Writing” by Gary Provost
Usually, I recommend memoirs on the third Thursday of the month, but instead, I will tell you about a little book that has helped me tremendously.
Episode #39 – I Didn’t Know It at the Time
My mom started teaching me to type when I was five years old. My small fingers could barely press down the keys of that old...
Episode #38 – Bite #95, Hold It Up to the Light
Today, our focus is Bite #95, “Hold It Up to the Light,” from Eating an Elephant: Write Your Life One Bite at a Time, and...
Episode #37 – Memoir Is a Window
On this fifth Thursday of the month, I want to feature a quotation from William Zinsser, an accomplished journalist and author of On Writing Well,...
Episode #36 – Do I really need to hire an editor?
Do I really need to hire an editor to help me with my book or story collection? I’m asked this question a lot, and there isn’t a clear-cut answer.
Episode #35 – “The Puma Years” – Laura Coleman
In Life Writers, we practice close reading as we study a published memoir over several months. Close reading is…
Three Cheers for…
It’s not often you witness someone fulfilling a dream. I had that chance this afternoon. Lon Michael struggled throughout his young life.
Episode #34 – Fathers
When I wake to the sound of construction across the lake, I find it pleasant. Some would find it annoying. The sound of sawing and...
A Dream Fulfilled
It’s not often you witness someone fulfilling a dream. I had that chance this afternoon. Lon Michael struggled throughout his young life.
Episode #33 – Profiling
Today, we crack open Eating an Elephant: Write Your Life One Bite at a Time and look at Bite #38 - Profiling. Profiling is the...
“Wild”
A few weeks ago, I heard Cheryl Strayed, author of the popular memoir, “Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail,” speak at the Nonfiction…
Episode #32 – Should I Include Photos in My Stories?
Today, I tackle a common question I hear from people writing their life stories. Should I include photos in my stories?
Rites of Passage
As I banged away on my keyboard this week, I looked at my left wrist and saw a spot. I did what my mother always did to me when I was a kid and had dirt on my face
Episode #31 – “I Could Tell You Stories” – Patricia Hampl
Today, I visited some old book friends from my grad school days and lingered on a collection of essays by Patricia Hampl titled I Could...
In Celebration of Mothers
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who have children or served as maternal mentors or role models for others. I visited my mom this afternoon…
Episode #30 – Names I’ve Been Called
As we do on the second Thursday of every month, we are going to write in response to a prompt. We've probably been known by...
Mercury in Retrograde
Nearly ten years ago, I offered my first writing challenge. But, if you’re new to Writing Your Life, you might not know what a writing challenge is.
Episode #29 – Come On Over to My Place, Baby
It’s sometimes good to change where we draft our stories, but I think it’s important to have a dedicated space to write as I talk...
What’s a Writing Challenge?
Nearly ten years ago, I offered my first writing challenge. But, if you’re new to Writing Your Life, you might not know what a writing challenge is.
Episode #28 – Do I “Always” Have to Brainstorm?
I am a big believer in brainstorming as a warmup to writing. I encourage people to spend five to ten minutes brainstorming before they write....
So Excited, I Could Just Spit
I fell in love with Costa Rica in 2018 when Bob and I visited the Caribbean and Pacific coasts and many points in between.
Episode #27 – “Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life” by Amy Krouse Rosenthal
I certainly love and respect books and all the wonderful stories they contain. As usual…
Uninspired Writing
Often, something happens during my week, and I know exactly what I want to write my Sunday Story about. Other times, I’m not so lucky....
Episode #26 – Whose Face Do You See?
Have you ever sat down to write but had no idea what to write about? Every second Thursday, we solve that problem for you because...
Sunday Stories: Bunny ears, Easter egg hunts, and cloves
As a kid, Easter was my favorite holiday. It wasn’t just about the candy, which I loved. Gold Brick Eggs, bunny ears, the crunchy bunny...
Episode #25 – Stop in the Middle
Many of us have rituals to begin and end our writing sessions. Today, we're going to talk about how and where you end your writing...
Sunday Stories: Misophonia
I learned a new word the other day: misophonia. Merrium-Webster defines misophonia as “a condition in which one or more common sounds (such as the...
Episode #24 – Anne Lamott’s Writing Wisdom
No matter what class I teach or talk I give, the question always comes up, “How do I write about people in my family?” On...
Sunday Stories: How Do You Want to Be Remembered?
Yesterday, I went to the memorial service for a gentleman who had been in my Orlando writing classes years ago. His name was Al Pfeiffer,...
Episode #23 – How I Started Doing This Work
Whenever I tell someone I help people write their life stories and family histories, they always say: “That’s so interesting. How did you end up...
Sunday Stories: Florida Is Weird, But…
Florida is weird. I’ve lived in Orlando just about as long as I lived in South Louisiana, so I feel entitled to tell the truth...
Episode #22 – “Heart in the Right Place” by Carolyn Jourdan
The memoir I want to share with you this week is Heart in the Right Place by Carolyn Jourdan. I enjoy passing on books I...
Sunday Stories: Lessons in Letting Go, Part Two
Lessons in Letting Go, Part Two Follow this link to read last week's Sunday Story, Lessons in Letting Go, Part One. One hotel chain has...
Episode #21 – Grief
How do you write the hard things, the emotions you’d rather avoid? Today, we’ll try our hand at it together. From an unlikely source, we...
Sunday Stories: Lessons in Letting Go, Part One
Lessons in Letting Go, Part One Recently, I had two lessons in letting go. The first involved the Costa Rica writing retreat I had scheduled...
Episode #20 – Don’t Edit Too Soon
When drafting a story, does it bug you to no end to see a typo or the wrong word in the paragraph you just finished?...
Sunday Stories: A Literary Greek, Part 2
Warning: This Sunday Story is long, but you’ll want to read it. Last week, I began the story of meeting one of my literary heroes,...
Episode #19 – When Am I’m Finished?
On this, the fourth Thursday of the month, we answer your writing questions. Today’s question comes from Phyllis Pociopa, “How do I know when I'm...
Sunday Stories: A Literary Geek, Part 1
It’s a drizzly Saturday afternoon as I write this. I sit on the second floor of one of my favorite bookstores—The Book Loft in Fernandina Beach on...
Episode #18 – “The Liars’ Club”
Studying–not just reading–a well-written memoir is like taking a master class with the author. Today, we learn from multi-award-winning author…
Sunday Stories: What’s That Noise?
I kept hearing this loud squawking at dawn every morning and again after dark. I mean, really loud, and I couldn’t tell what bird was causing all...
Episode #17 – Bills I Hate to Pay
On the second Tuesday of the month, we write in response to a prompt, so grab your laptop, pen and paper, quill and scroll, whatever...
Sunday Stories: Marie and Me
Thank you to those who missed my Sunday Story last week and asked where it was. I felt excited to hear you noticed. Last Sunday,...
Episode #16 – Start, Stop, Repeat
Do you remember the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray and Andie McDonald? In it, Murray keeps experiencing the same day over and over. So...
Episode #15 – Differing Family Memories
Welcome back. On this, the fourth Thursday, we answer your writing questions. Today’s question is, “What if my family’s memories don’t match my own?” You...
Sunday Stories: I Love Pelicans
I Love Pelicans I’ve mentioned before how fortunate we are to live on a lake near downtown Orlando thanks to a generous landlord and the...
Episode #14 – A Happy Memoir
Do you want to be a strong writer? Reading will help you achieve that goal, which is why we look at a specific memoir and...
Sunday Stories: New Eyes
New Eyes A couple of weeks ago, a friend told me a story a buddy shared with him. This buddy served in the navy aboard...
Episode #13 – Pickles
Welcome to our second vlog of January 2023. That means it is writing prompt day! Grab your pen and paper, laptop, or whatever you use....
Sunday Stories: Tiny Is Good
Tiny Is Good Next door to the condo complex where my husband Bob and I live is a tiny house community, the largest neighborhood of...
Episode #12 – Make Writing Fun
Can you believe it is 2023? Ready or not, here we are. A new year can be a catalyst for new things, like writing your...
Sunday Stories: I Have a Decision to Make
I Have a Decision to Make I have a big decision to make today. I was a failed journaler for decades, always buying beautiful new...
Episode #11 – Driving at Night
Today, we have the rare treat of a fifth Thursday vlog with writing advice from an accomplished writer. Our spotlight falls on a quote from...
Sunday Stories: Sounds Surround Us
Sounds Surround Us Most mornings, I do a short guided meditation to start my day. I don’t sit on the floor in a lotus position...
Episode #10 – What Can Help Me Write?
Today is the fourth Thursday, so our focus is on answers to your writing questions. I’m often asked, “What’s one thing I can do to...
Sunday Stories: Love to Stare
I love to stare. No, not the creepy, I’m-looking-at-you kind of stare. I love to stare into the distance and allow my mind the freedom to romp…
Episode #9 – “Ava’s Man” by Rick Bragg
How well do you write similes? On this third Thursday, I share a recommended memoir and what you can learn from it. The writer is...
Sunday Stories: Florida’s Two Seasons
Florida's Two Seasons We have two seasons in Florida. The beautiful one we’re in now is the this-is-why-I-live-here season. It starts sometime in November if...
Episode #8 – Scars Tell a Story
Have you heard the phrase cat got your tongue? As life story writers, I suppose it would be more like blank page got your pen....
Episode #7 – Start Anywhere
How do you know where to start writing your life story? Need help figuring that out? If the thought of writing your life story from...
Episode #6 – Twain’s Writing Wisdom
Mark Twain's Writing Wisdom One of the United States' favorite bards, Mark Twain, offers us great writing advice in the way only he can--with humor....
Episode #5 – No Time to Write
No Time to Write All the time, I hear, "I want to write my life stories, but I never find the time." I understand. Finding time never...
Episode #4 – “The Glass Castle”
The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls To be a good life story writer, I believe you have to be a good reader, especially of memoirs....
Episode #3 – Sounds of the Night
Sounds of the Night In episode three of the Life Writers vlog, we are going to dip into a little book of writing prompts I...
Episode #2 – The only way to do this wrong…
The only way to do this wrong is to not do it at all! When a woman in my class asked me to write a...
Episode #1 – Welcome to the Life Writers Vlog!
Welcome to the Life Writers Vlog! If you're not sure what a vlog is, this video answers that question. Plus, I tell you what to...

The only way to do this wrong is to not do it at all!
This is the most important thing you’ll ever hear me say: The only way to do this wrong is to not do it at all!
So go ahead and write the stories only you can.
You can clean up the grammar, spelling, and punctuation later, but first you have to have something on the page.
From bite #1 of Patricia’s multi-award-winning book, Eating an Elephant: Write Your Life One Bite at a Time.
If you’d like to hear the story behind this saying, click on episode #2 of the Life Writers vlog.
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